Love actually

It is the name of an old film. It is one of the few films to be watched with my puppy. A lot of things I didn't understand at that moment, including the true means of this two words. And now, a refreshed idea about it is deeply in my heart.

My puppy made a decision I know but not really understand at that moment. Glad to that wonderful decision, she made a good choice, may be even a best choice, both to her and me. And such a good choice induced me to make my best choice. And embedded with my best choice, the true meaning of "love actually" is refreshed inside my mind.

Then what love is actually? The best explaination comes from our Jesus Christ. "This is my command. Love each other. (John:15:17)" John explain it in a more detailed manner in 1 John: "This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers. (1 John 3:16) ", "There is no fear in Love. But perfect love drives out fear, because fear has to de with punishment." (1 John 4:18) That is so true, love with fear is not perfect love. Fearness can be anything that force us to be escaped from any love relationship. But perfect love can overcome it. Fearness can make you slow down, but it can't stop you as your true love will guide you and overcome the fearness. If perfect love exists, there is no way for you to escape, no way for you not to endure, no way for you banning your hope, if you believe it is really the true love. If your fearness and adverse feeling can successfully make you escape from an relationship, then, the only conclusion is that your claimed love is not the perfect love. Without perfect love, there is no support for you to contribute on such relationship. Trials are always there. It is no way to escape from it. They bring fearness, doubtness and sin into each relationship. With little faith, inside each relationship, you simply step forward and then backward and repeat this again and again. All your effort is just concentrated on the battles inside your heart. Will there be any change in the world, any change in the relationship? No, You can't change the world, you put 150% of the actual effort required but simply get nothing. You just feel tired, feel to be lost. Do you like this kind of life style?